Thursday, February 07, 2013

Takumi

We don't hear much from Takumi usually but we finally did get an e-mail from him that included a picture of him holding a diploma.

Takumi has lived in California now for... 9 years?  Wow!  Already that long!  I see him once a year in the summer when I visit my mother but I think he has only been back to Japan once in that time.  He must feel that he fits pretty well into American society.

(Picture of Takumi when he was in high school.)

After the tiring (on my part) teenage years, Takumi settled down to American education in a community college.  He spent the first year polishing up his English skills.  As he became bolder he transferred to another community college and then another trying to finish up his general education requirements and get the REAL American experience.  (He spent a year living in Hollywood and he lived in someone's living room for awhile...)  Finally he transferred to Cal State University Long Beach as a Mathematics major and he happily and diligently pursued his studies and worked as a waiter.

And then about two years ago Takumi approached us with the plan to go on to graduate school.  He thought we might be getting a bit tired of supporting him (um... true) but he felt he needed his Masters if I wanted to stay in the States and get a job.

Wow!!  Takumi wants to continue studying?  Is this the same teenager whom I feared wouldn't get his high school diploma?  By all means!  Do what you can with student loans and go for it!!

(As a motorcycle rider in Takumi's late teen years.)

So Takumi has studied (and Tetsu has asked me periodically when he might be finishing) and finally this week we got a picture of smiling Takumi holding his diploma.  My son has graduated with a Master's Degree in Computer Science.  (A great big grin on my face right now!)

Well, I can't brag and boast to Takumi's old Jr. high and high school teachers and friends who probably didn't think he'd go very far but I can brag on my blog... so I am.

Takumi, we think you are GREAT!!!!

Now... he is looking for a job.....

39 comments:

Deborah said...

Congratulations to Takumi and to you, his parents! It feels so good when our children succeed!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations Tanya, Tetsu and Takumi. What a precious smile. Very well done Takumi.
May our Lord bless you in your job hunt.
Grace

Mimi said...

With a Masters in Computer Science a job should not take long to find. You are very patient parents and Takumi is a good son to apply himself to his studies. Go Takumi !!

Anonymous said...

Yahooo...and hooray and Hallelujah for Takhumi's hard work!!!!! And Tetsu and Tanya, you must be so very proud of him!!! Congratulations to all the Watanabe family on Takhumi's accomplishments....big hugs, Pat in IN

QuiltinLibraryLady said...

Congrats to Takumi...and you and Tetsu too. I wish him well in his job search.

Sara said...

That is wonderful news! Congratulations to the new graduate and his proud parents!!

KQ Sue said...

Yea! Every child has to find their spot in the puzzle of life. My oldest had a terrible time in grade school and high school. He studied constantly to maintain a C or B to pass his classes. College was a piece of cake for him, but he was finally studing stuff he wanted to study. Maked a big difference.

KQ Sue said...

"Studying" "Made" typo night!

AnnieO said...

That was a long and winding road for your family but Takumi's success is definitely a reason to shout and celebrate! I'll add my congratulations too :) With that degree he is likely to be in demand and in California especially!

Nancy J said...

Hearty congrats to you all, much study,lots and lots, parent that encourage, help in all sorts of ways, and now a "masters".Well done. A job, well I hope that is the easiest part. Tanya, you can relax, and be so very proud, both you and Tetsu. as a parent, all we want for our family is for them to achieve to their ability and to be happy in whatever they do. Greetings from Jean

Julie Fukuda said...

Not every kid does it the same way. I still remember telling #1 son to "take the GED and get on with your life". Community college did the best for him and success breeds success. (He just returned in November after 16 years, with his bride, to show her around) Congratulations to you all!

Lois Evensen said...

Congratulations to Takumi and to you and Tetsu for raising a great son! :) It feels wonderful to see your kids do well, doesn't it! :)

Marcie said...

Congratulations to you all, you must be so proud! It's lovely when one of your kids has big win.

Maya said...

Congratulations to Takumi and the whole family!! This is such good news.

Mariel said...

Congratulations to Takumi! What a great accomplishment!! Wishing him much luck as he pursues a job and a new path for his life. Congrats to the proud parents also!!

BrendaLou said...

Congratulations. Takumi's perserverence and dedication are testimony to your (and Tetsu's) parenting...you may not think so, but it is true. Be proud! God has surely blessed you all.

Anonymous said...

Hooray to you all! My son (why is it almost always sons?) put me through all sorts of hell educationally, but he sorted himself out at college, is now bilingual and biliterate like your Takumi, and working on his masters' thesis, in both English and Japanese. You see, everything worked out fine in the end! All we had to do was have faith.

Jan said...

Well done! Good luck in your job hunt, Takumi.

Jeannie said...

Congratulations to you all!!! I went back to college in my 30's and I know too well how much hard work has gone into Takumi's diploma. Way to go! Wishing him the best of luck in the job market. Woo Hoo!!!

jirons42 said...

Isn't it amazing if we can just grit our teeth and hold on through those teenage years, almost all the time they turn out to be really wonderful people.

Timi said...

Congratulations!!! He looks so happy!!! :o)))

joe tulips said...

Congratulations Takumi! This is wonderful news.

pratima said...

Congratulations!! That's wonderful!!
So happy for you, Tanya :)

Sewfun said...

Congratualtions! That is great...Computer Science should allow him to get a great job.
It's always rewarding when children finally find their way. You should be very proud.

twebsterarmstrong said...

Congratulations! A handsome son with a very good degree under his belt: you can be VERY proud.

Anonymous said...

His smile says it all.
Congratulations from Gail in Wa State.

sharon said...

Congrats to the Graduate....hard work pays off...:)

Ida said...

Congratulations Takumi!

judyjj said...

Congratulations! Hard work and a big reward!

Anonymous said...

Maybe the high school struggles are what made Takumi strong. That strength and sense of self have served him well! I love hearing the stories of your children. It couldn't have been easy coming to America, struggling with the language, and going to school. You've given both of your children wings and permission to find their own way in life and that is the greatest gift parents give to their children! Congratulations to all of you!

Melissa in Chula Vista CA

Gisela Towner said...

How very exciting? You both must be so very proud. Congratulations!

Christine Robinson said...

you must be so proud of him, what an achievement.It must have been hard for you all being so far apart, but great to hear it has all worked out so well.

Cassandra said...

Congratulations to Takumi!! What an accomplishment!!

Allie said...

A giant CONGRATULATIONS to Takumi, that is a major accomplishment - well done, young man!!!!!

Sandra Coleman Clarke said...

Congratulations to Takumi!! Quite an achievemen!!

Anonymous said...

Well done, Takumi! Good luck with the job hunting :)

What a lovely post to read on a dreary winter's evening in the UK.

Caroline

Sue in LA said...

CONGRATULATIONS!

Marlene said...

Hi, I've been away from the computer for a while!! Just saw this...CONGRATULATIONS Takumi!!! And Congratulations to you and Tetsu, too! We are very proud of you Takumi and wish you the best of luck in finding a job.
Marlene and KY

Bessie said...

Congratulations to Takumi! "And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns." Philippians 1:6
Wow, a new and exciting season ahead...

Bessie